In today’s world, it’s easy to think your life is worse and that’s what most people think.
You open Twitter and see how smarter people are. You open Instagram and see how happy people are in nice pictures.
This makes you think you are living a life much worse when in reality you are doing fine.
Signs that you are doing better than you think you are
1. You are not the same person you were last year
You changed a lot in a year. Change is a sign of growth and development. Without change, there’s no growth.
Take a moment to go back a year from now to capture who you were. Compare who you are with who you were.
Then ask yourself these questions:
Now you have gained a great insight into who you are. If most of your answers are bad, you know what to do.
Decide to become a different person next year. Set goals that will improve your life.
Break toxic habits and patterns that are holding you back. Promise yourself to work harder and be disciplined.
Make your dreams come true. If you are better than who you were last year.
I want to tell you congratulations, be proud of yourself and never stop.
2. You went through hard times
You become certain of your strength when you go through hard times.
Tough days test your mental and physical strength, ability to endure hardships, and faith to hope and work for better days.
If you are going through tough days, just be sure you will come out stronger surviving these days.
3. You are serious about your goals
Most people follow the masses and don’t dare to set goals.
Goals give purpose to live for, strength, to face hardships, and meaning to your efforts.
You prioritize your goals over clubs and places that add nothing to your life.
If you don’t have any goal, set a simple goal and start working to achieve it.
Everyone who has set a goal once and achieved it knows the sense of satisfaction you feel.
This feeling is outstanding and everyone should strive to feel it. Just know you are doing much better in life than you think you are.
4. You have 1-2 real friends
Having a real friend in this fake world is a real blessing.
A real friend you can count on and trust is a sign that you are doing better, even if it’s just one person.
5. You seek peace over pleasure
You choose peace and care about your mental health. But peace doesn’t come easy.
It means cutting off people, learning, creating useful habits, and keeping a positive and healthy mind.
Many people don’t face the harsh truth of their lives and chase the next dopamine hit.
You are on the next level if you are always choosing peace over temporary happiness.
6. You don’t make big announcements
You don’t need public validation and support to start working on your goals. You work silently and let the result speak.
7. You learn from mistakes
The reason why most people suffer in life is that they don’t accept their mistakes and learn from them.
But you are here learning from your mistakes, improving yourself with the lessons you learned, and becoming the better version of yourself.
You are doing excellent in life, even if it’s not obvious. This mindset will take you exactly where you want to go.
8. You trust yourself and your intuition
You are willing to walk the road you know is designed for you. Many people follow the crowd fearing to walk alone.
But you no longer live in that prison. You pursue your goals and trust your intuition.
9. You spend some time doing what you enjoy
Whether it’s watching a movie, listening to music, singing, or writing.
We are all busy being ambitious, working hard, and taking care of our families. But finding the time to do what you enjoy alone is precious.
You might think you are doing badly, but that might not be true.
Here are the 9 signs that you are doing better than you think you are:
- You are not the same person you were last year
- You went through hard times
- You are serious about your goals
- You have 1-2 real friends
- You seek peace over pleasure
- You don’t make big announcements
- You learn from mistakes
- You trust yourself and your intuition
- You spend some time doing what you enjoy