In your 20s and 30s, You should be smart enough to realize these 11 facts

Your 20s and 30s are the best years of your life. It’s the years when you go through stressful nights, cheerful days, and blessed evenings.

Most of your life events will be in your 20s and 30s. However, not all people will get the best out of these years. For sure, no one is perfect or should be smart.

There are some lessons that life will repeat itself until it’s learned. The coolest thing about these lessons is that they will improve your life.

We live by working hard and thinking to make better decisions because we want a better life. A life with fewer problems and more happiness.

11 facts to know in your 20s and 30s

1. Your diet isn’t just what you eat, but what you watch, read, and who you follow and spend your time with.

Your diet isn’t the only thing affecting your health; what you give your attention to also affects it.

If you follow social media accounts that only post negative content, be sure it will affect how you think and how you respond.

What you read has a massive effect on your personality and character. If you like what you are reading, then that’s good, keep on.

Otherwise, you should double-check if the book you are reading isn’t the main source of your problem.

2. You shouldn’t take advice from people who aren’t where you want to be.

That’s one of the most important lessons you should learn in your 20s and 30s. You should always listen to those who have what you want, not the opposite.

• If you want to become a doctor, take career advice from doctors
• If you want to become a successful entrepreneur, don’t listen to entrepreneurs who gave up

The same goes for everything. Most people who didn’t achieve what you want or don’t have it will always talk you out of your dreams.

They will tell you things like:

• You are not the right person for this
• It’s too late
• It’s hard, you should pursue something else
• I tried and failed, what makes you think you will succeed
• You are too young/old

Their words might look like facts. But they are projecting their limits on you.

If several people who have what you want, tell you these (they rarely do), you should think again.

3. No one is coming to save you from your problems. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

Whether you love it or not, your life is your responsibility and there’s nothing you can do about it rather than accept it.

Stop whining about the many things happening in your life and start taking responsibility for it.

4. You don’t need 100 self-help books; all you need is action and self-discipline.

Books are great, I’m a big fan of reading books. But it means nothing if you don’t apply the knowledge you gain.

Most of the books I read are self-help books; they increased my self-awareness.

Self-help books work perfectly when you are taking actions that will improve your life. Or when you are on vacation. Otherwise, it makes your life a little worse.

5. Many people don’t think about you. So stop being shy, go out, and don’t miss valuable opportunities.

A lot of people don’t think about you; it’s your mind that thinks about you a lot. It comes up with many scenarios, which make you nervous.

In reality, everyone is busy in their heads thinking about their problems.

6. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don’t compete.

One of the best pieces of advice you will hear today. When you work with someone smarter than you, you become smarter than your old version.

You learn from him/her and improve. Be intelligent enough to make a team of people smarter than you.

7. Comfort is the worst addiction and a cheap ticket to depression.

Comfort is the worst addiction because nothing good comes out of it.

People who are always in their comfort zone are prone to anxiety, depression, and sadness.

The growth zone is where you challenge yourself and become mentally stronger. Develop a healthy addiction.

8. Don’t tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

Privacy is power because it’s hard for a hater to attack what he/she doesn’t know.

Unless you don’t have something precious to protect, go public with all the details about yourself.

To avoid regrets, there are things you should stay silent about in all situations.

9. Keep your standard high and don’t settle for something available.

Don’t lower your standard for other people; let them work on themselves and meet you at your standard.

10. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

Your brother and sister are important, but your child is more important.

You should focus more on the family you create because it’s your responsibility.

No matter how dark your past was with the family you come from, you should focus on what’s important.

11. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99% of mental problems.

A lot of your problems can be avoided if you don’t take things personally. It’s a skill that is hard and can take time, but it’s one of the best.

Conclusion

You can get the best out of your 20s and 30s if you are smart enough to learn what most fail to learn.

Here are 11 facts you should know in your 20s and 30s:

• Your diet isn’t just what you eat, but what you watch, read, and who you follow and spend your time with.
• You shouldn’t take advice from people who aren’t where you want to be.
• No one is coming to save you from your problems. Your life is 100% your responsibility.
• You don’t need 100 self-help books; all you need is action and self-discipline.
• Many people about you. So stop being shy, go out, and don’t miss valuable opportunities.
• If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don’t compete.
• Comfort is the worst addiction and a cheap ticket to depression.
• Don’t tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.
• Keep your standard high and don’t settle for something available.
• The family you create is more important than the family you come from.
• Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99% of mental problems.