10 Deep Truths About People You Should Accept For a Peaceful Life
We all long for a bond (friendship or relationship)
where we feel safe, are completely ourselves,
let our guard down, and are vulnerable.
We are humans and that’s one of our deepest desires.
But the harsh truth is that if we become vulnerable
to some people and tell them our secrets,
we will end up in a really bad situation.
Not everyone you meet is good
and none of your friends is perfect, so as you.
The only way to live peacefully amid all these problems
is to accept people for who they are
instead of what you want them to become.
Here are the 10 Deep Truths About People You Should Accept For a Peaceful Life:
1. Everyone has a story; their behavior often stems from their experiences.
Don’t expect people to act a certain way or your way.
You have a story that shaped you into who you are,
accept that people have different experiences than you.
They don’t expect you to act their way.
Let go of your unhealthy habit of controlling others.
2. People are inherently flawed; perfection is an unrealistic expectation.
People are not perfect
and their flaws are part of who they are.
Don’t force perfection on others
because you are not perfect also.
3. Your perception of others is often a reflection of yourself.
How you judge others reveals a lot about you and less about them.
What do you focus on and what triggers you about them?
This can be a start to learning a lot about yourself.
4. Many people are unaware of their impact on others; communication is key.
People may have behaviors that affect others negatively
but they don’t recognize it.
The key is to have an honest and open conversation
with them addressing these issues.
If they are not willing to change, you can leave.
5. People are driven by their own needs and desires; this is a fundamental aspect of human nature.
Accept the fact that people will never do something
with no apparent, there is always a personal desire and need.
This fact will stop you from being a fool and recognize traps.
6. True connection requires vulnerability; people often hide their true selves.
Closing up yourself because of past hurts
and betrayals will never let you form deep connections.
Understand that your hurt is meant to teach you lessons
but to never punish.
Don’t punish yourself.
7. Everyone is capable of change; growth is a lifelong journey.
You will continually change because we humans
have the ability to adapt to any difficult situations.
You will change for the better,
also accept that people will change when required.
Who you knew may not be who they are now.
8. People often fear rejection and judgment; kindness can help alleviate this fear.
Be kind to nervous people
because that’s what they need the most.
A gentle kindness can lift their spirit. Support others.
9. Not everyone will understand your perspective; differing viewpoints are natural.
Differences in opinions, thoughts, and perspectives
are natural and you must accept them.
We humans are not the same.
10. People seek belonging and acceptance; fostering inclusivity can create harmony.
Yes.
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