10 Uncomfortable Truths About People You Have to Face
People are deep and complex.
How they project themselves to the public is not always who they are.
With time, we realize that the loving
and nice person you meet is not that nice at all,
and he/she has darker tendencies.
Ironically, that rude person is not evil
and has a loving side that he/she hides.
That’s a part of human nature, and we must accept it.
We are all unpaid actors programmed by our society
and the environment we grew up in.
If we accept this fact and become aware of ourselves,
we can start changing our negative beliefs and habits
and break all the negative patterns that are holding us back.
We stop being naive about people and the world.
Here are the 10 Uncomfortable Truths About People You Have to Face:
1. People are inconsistent.
You can’t predict people completely.
If a person is good today, it does not mean
that they will stay good forever.
Learn to accept people’s inconsistency.
2. People crave validation.
It is a deep desire in human nature to feel important
that’s why we crave validation.
We want our great work to be validated
and admired by many people.
3. People are not always honest.
They are not honest about many things.
Their taste, judgments, and ideas may not truly be
what they really want to say.
4. People judge others.
People will always judge; they judge what is good or bad.
That’s the only way we evaluate people’s behaviors.
5. People are capable of cruelty.
We have the immense capability of inflicting physical
and emotional pain on others without feeling guilty.
It is a part of human nature.
6. People are driven by fear.
People are driven by fear more than any other emotion.
The fear of judgment, shame, and loss can drive people to action.
7. People are resistant to change.
We hate change because we love our comfort zone.
Comfort zones offer familiarity and a sense of security away
from the unpredictability of the world.
8. People will disappoint you.
Even those you truly love will one day disappoint you
and break your expectations.
Accepting this fact will shield you from disappointment.
9. People are inherently selfish.
People have their self-interest as a priority.
That’s an aspect of human nature, and you must accept it.
10. People wear masks.
Yes.
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