Your Future Self Will Thank You For Knowing These 10 Harsh Life Truths
Life is a journey filled with unseen plots that surprise us.
Sometimes, it is just good days filled with joy, love, stability,
and happiness that make you appreciate life to the fullest,
but sometimes, it is complete darkness filled with
pain, misery, and regrets that make you wonder.
In life, we all dream of a good life where we achieve
our dreams and find our soul mate,
but the truth is,
there are some hidden plots we can’t avoid
and they are usually painful.
This is not meant to discourage you
but to awaken your adventurous spirit
because we all have the capacity to overcome any difficulty
that life throws our way.
This isn’t about negativity; it’s about empowerment.
I’ll be diving into ten essential life truths
that might hurt you a bit at first, but trust me;
your future self will thank you for knowing them as I did.
Here are the 10 Harsh Life Truths:
1. Being too friendly sometimes invites a lot of disrespесt.
Friendliness without a clear boundary
is extremely unhealthy because people will do
the worst if you don’t stop them.
They will take advantage of your kindness.
Not everyone you know or meet is good, and some are toxic.
Set boundaries!
2. Leave the table if you’re not served with respect.
Respect yourself enough to leave any place, friendship,
or a relationship where you are not respected.
You are not obligated to tolerate any bullsh*t from anyone.
Preserve your dignity and leave.
3. The woman you choose is the reflection of your standards.
The partner you choose in life and the people
you associate yourself with are reflections
of your values, beliefs, and standards.
Never lower your standards and stand still on your values
because they will protect you from many unnecessary troubles.
4. Sometimes, people don’t change. They just remove their masks.
People often present different personas that mask
their true personalities in various situations.
But time reveals everything.
Understand that sometimes
the changes you perceive in others
are merely the unveiling of their true selves.
5. People don’t care for you when you’re alone. They only care for you when they’re alone.
Sometimes, they don’t really care about you.
You can be sure about this when their kindness is conditional,
and they disappear when they get what they want.
Cut these types of people out of your life.
6. Take time to improve, but don’t waste time to prove.
Personal growth is about becoming the best version of yourself,
It’s not about getting praise from people.
Public validation should never be on your list of goals.
You are improving for yourself, never for them.
7. No matter how good a person you are, you are evil in someone’s story.
Accept it and understand
that being liked by everyone is impossible.
Some people will dislike you or project their insecurities onto you.
It has nothing to do with you.
8. If you want to be successful, you must be willing to disappear for a while.
Achieving success often requires intense focus and sacrifice.
This might involve sacrificing your social life
or enjoyable activities for a period of time.
9. People don’t notice the things we do for them until we stop doing them.
Often, the efforts and sacrifices you make for others
go unnoticed until you cease to provide them.
This can lead to feelings of being taken for granted.
It’s important to communicate your needs
and ensure that your efforts are appreciated.
10. Pay attention to what people say out of anger. They’ve been dying to tell you that.
Yes.
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