Give Me 3 Minutes of Your Times and I Will Fix 79.3% of Your Problems
Life is a series of lessons and habits that move us.
We usually say life happens out of our control,
but the ugly truth is that we control many aspects of our lives.
Bad habits typically lead to poor outcomes that affect our lives.
But it is rare to find someone admitting that one of their toxic habits
is destroying their lives.
People always find an external agent to blame
because the truth is an unpleasant pill.
The nine lessons in this article will change your mind on many things
but ultimately improve your life if you stick with them.
Here are the 9 lessons:
1. Train yourself to take nothing personally, You will save 99% of your mental problems.
A lot of hurtful words or nasty behaviors
that people say to you have nothing to do with you.
So be calm and continue enjoying your life.
2. You have to choose what is right, not what is easy.
What is right is not always easy or feels good,
but you must do it regardless.
Many people make bad life decisions
because they make them based on their feelings.
3. If you know how quickly people forget the dead, you will stop living to impress people.
Be socially good, but never sacrifice your mental health
just to impress or please people; that’s an expensive trade.
Care about people, but never forget that you are a person, too.
4. The more you try to be everything to everyone, the more you become nothing to yourself.
You will permanently lose yourself trying to gain the approval of others;
that’s a very high price to pay.
Trying to please everyone is the main reason for most people’s misery.
5. Accept every situation with a smile.
Most situations are out of your control.
Learn to smile and accept them as they are.
What’s the point of wasting your energy being angry
at something you can’t change?
6. Your new life is going to cost you your old one.
You should be willing to let go when it is time.
7. People will start hating you when they cannot control you.
Don’t get mad, just keep being you and being okay that they are pissed off.
Don’t let them disrespect or manipulate you.
8. When God blesses you financially. Don’t raise your standards of living. Raise your standard of giving.
Generous people are usually the happiest, and they sleep well.
Learn to be generous when you are blessed.
9. For things to change for you, you have to change.
If you want a different life, you must change who you are.
The current version of you gave you the life you have now.
10. When you are winning, keep your mouth shut. That’s the law.
It is that simple.
